Consider this a sort of self-help blog I guess you can say. I've always wanted to let people know they're not alone in whatever they're going through. Anything I can help with, I'll be here because I don't want anyone feeling the same pain I've felt. If you need a little something-something to brighten up your day, I want this to be where you come to. If you need someone to talk to feel free to message me about anything, anon or not, I'm here to help, listen and give the best advice I can. I want you guys to know you're never alone and things do get better. Trust me, I know. Never lose hope and never give up the fight.
accept your flaws, your mistakes, and your past. you’re untouchable this way.
if someone asks you to guess their age - always guess 5-10 years younger than you actually believe
skipping a whole semester of school because someone broke your heart won’t fix anything
find time to spend with your parents, they won’t be around forever and they deserve to feel appreciated
there is nothing beautiful about swallowing a bottle of pills. there is nothing beautiful about your mom finding you on your bathroom floor. there is nothing beautiful about having your stomach pumped. suicide isn’t beautiful
that bowl of ice cream will not make you gain five pounds
gaining five pounds will not ruin your life
never ever go to bed mad at someone that you care about - people die in their sleep all the fucking time
let your grandmother leave lipstick marks on your cheek, smile and tell her it’s okay and kiss her back
opening your wrists isn’t going to help you, not now, not ever.
it’s okay to collapse to your knees, it’s to cry but you need to pick yourself back up
go for a drive at 2:00 am and scream at the top of your lungs, sing that song that makes you think of them, scream it for the whole world to hear, it helps
people will leave, it’s inevitable, but there really is at least one person that’ll never leave your side
until you are happy with yourself you will never be able to be completely happy with another person
never ever EVER beg someone to stay, if they want to leave, hold the door for them
bubble baths and real friends (the band) will make everything okay, even if it’s just a little
don’t be afraid to cut people out, don’t be afraid to let people go, your happiness comes first
if all else fails, put your phone on airplane mode, put on a feel good playlist, lay on the floor (cry if you have to) and just fucking breathe
you’re going to be okay