Consider this a sort of self-help blog I guess you can say. I've always wanted to let people know they're not alone in whatever they're going through. Anything I can help with, I'll be here because I don't want anyone feeling the same pain I've felt. If you need a little something-something to brighten up your day, I want this to be where you come to. If you need someone to talk to feel free to message me about anything, anon or not, I'm here to help, listen and give the best advice I can. I want you guys to know you're never alone and things do get better. Trust me, I know. Never lose hope and never give up the fight.
When you find yourself drowning in self-hate, you have to remind yourself that you weren’t born feeling this way. That at some point in your journey, some person or experience sent you the message that there was something wrong with who you are, and you internalized those messages and took them on as your truth. But that hate isn’t yours to carry, and those judgments aren’t about you. And in the same way that you learned to think badly of yourself, you can learn to think new, self-loving and accepting thoughts. You can learn to challenge those beliefs, take away their power, and reclaim your own. It won’t be easy, and it won’t happen over night. But it is possible. And it starts when you decide that there has to be more to life than this pain you feel. It starts when you decide that you deserve to discover it.